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A lot of youths today have a lot of questions on their mind which they are yet to get answers to. Below is a review of some of these anonymous questions...

Question 1: What do i do if i don't meet up to my parents' expectations?

 










Answer:
 Keep trying...there is no crime in trying, a writer once said "Greatness is doing what is to be done when it should be done without minding the difficulties". You need to keep doing your best, if today you help in the kitchen, tomorrow you help them in the garden, and they still don't believe you to be useful in the house...try to put this in mind, "there is light at the end of the tunnel".

Most times, you never can tell, your parents might be doing most of those things in order to get on your nerves, in their bid to try your patience and maturity, they might step on your toes...but...you need to stay strong!

Warning:- Whatever happens, don't leave the house, don't get into the habit of saying "This house is too hot for me". It is a very dangerous speech, only your parents know the right time for you to be set free, don't let the kind of life your peers enjoy blindfold you, God made your parents in order for them to lead and guide you not into destruction but into everlasting glory, your parents will always want you to shine.

Be Wise!!!

Question 2:  My friends believe i am stupid because i dont drink, What do u do?

Answer: 

 Don't Drink!!!...Whatever they do to entice you, whatever they do to lure you, dont drink!

A lot of youth these days are used to the habit of drinking which basically, they inherited from each other. it is just like a circle, since one is addicted, he doesn't want to be alone, he pushes forward to invite others to drink, then others join in, before you know it, a whole community is full of youths that don't do without drinking.

Below is a diagram to show more light.

That is exactly how it works, a circle of infected drunkards. Definitely, in that circle there are innocent people who where not comfortable with the idea, but allowed themselves to be lured in foolishly.

How does it happen?

1. You know they are drinking, you still loiter around with does same set of people

2. They are trying to lure you by saying "Why don't you just take a sip and thats all"...(Well thats all indeed, because once you are into it, it is not that easy to get out).

3. They tell you to come to their house for a very important meeting and when you get there they say they were joking that you should join them in drinking, you say no...but you still hang around them LAUGHING

4. You go to a party, you find out that all the drinks available are alcoholic, still you hang around and you believe that you can avoid drinking, I tell you, the more you hang around, the more closing they get to you.

All these and many more.

How to escape temptations to drink

1. Resist the devil and he will flee from you, just resist them and they will go away from you.

2. Learn to say "NO!" at the right time.

3. The moment you start noticing the present of expensive joke, take your leave

4. Your time is very useful, don't waste it!

5. Avoid late night parties!

6. Avoid loitering around with irresponsible girls

All these and many more...BE wise!!! 

Question 3: I am addicted to Night Clubs and girls, What do i do?

Answer:  

A lot of youths and teens are addicted to night clubs and social outings, you are not the first and you will definitely not be the last, but you have to control it. 

Most times, the urge to go to night clubs come up because you read pornographic books or you watch them

Night club as they say "Is a place to catch fun and catch girls too", its true, you catch fun in clubs but in the wrong way. >How?<...There is no way you will go to a night club where alcoholic drinks will not be served, and the moment you take alcohol in excess, you lose your stand, before you know it, you would develop the ego to dance with a lady, then you invite her to your home for the night, then you have "it" with her that night, All because you have been blinded by alcohol.

Solutions...

1. Cultivate the habit of saying "No" at the right time.

2. Try your possible best to resist temptations

3. Select your friends, if you find out your friends are the ones leading you into it, it would be advisable for you to change them..IMMEDIATELY!

4. Read 'educative' books not 'pornographic' one

5. Be careful with the kinds of songs you listen to.

Note: The moment you find yourself too attracted to pornographic images, videos etc. then there is problem and the best thing for you to do is to...

1. Try to resist from it!

 










2. TALK TO GOD!!

3. TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!

>Because you never can tell they might have been in your shoes once.<
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